The 6 Things I Am Leaving Behind In 2021

February 2021

What a wild ride 2021 has been. I began 2021 pregnant, had a baby in the spring, and left my 9-5 in the fall. I have recently been diving deep into content creation and blogging. I took a social media break to reflect and plan for all the great things and lessons 2022 will bring. 

I used the month of December to nail down the direction for myself personally, financially, spiritually, and reflect on the women I want to be in this new year. Tomorrow is not promised, so I want to do things that lead me to my ultimate purpose and serve God every day. With this year comes growth and change, and there is a lot that I will not be taking with me in 2022.

Here are the 6 things:

March 2021

1. Negative self-thoughts/talk

I am not the one to beat myself up, but I do find myself thinking & talking negatively. Sometimes it is about my post-pregnancy body or how my writing won't be relatable to anybody.

2. Dimming my own light

There are times when people thank me for my work or my unrelenting passion for serving my community. I say "thank you" and then say, "it's not a big deal." I will acknowledge my hard work and dedication. I will be proud of what I do and let my light be an example for my daughter and the other women that look to me.

3. Not taking care of my body, mental health

It wasn't until I got pregnant that I was purposeful about what I ate, drank, and put in my body. I was even working out and doing yoga when I was pregnant. Since I gave birth, I have not been consistent with my workout routine or intentional about eating. When I eat well, I feel good. I intend to eat healthier and take care of my body. I plan to put my body and mental health as a priority.

August 2021

4. Perfection

I have wanted to start a blog since 2016 but passed on the idea because I didn't think I could do it. I almost started a youtube Channel but did not because I felt that everything was not in line. In this new year, I will choose progress over perfection. I will not let it stop me from launching new projects. 

5. Saying Yes when I want to say No

I will no longer waste my time and energy on projects or people who no longer suit me. I will not feel bad for saying no!

6. Caring what other people will think

They can think whatever and add sugar to it.

November 2021